I know that love is a very sensitive subject, but I will throw an opinion. Remember that is not the right one… is just an opinion… think about it as you listen to a melody.
Schopenhauer said that love is just an instinctual impulse. That we fall in love with our opposites with the ones that nature thinks that we’ll make good children. And this is working us from the inside without even us to be constient of it.
That’s a very interesting point of view. A point of view that from my experience tends to be true. But I have a simple question, what is life without instincts? I think it will be just fleshless. It’s good to know this point of view because honestly it kind of answers some questions.
So now the question is what is love. Is it instinct or feelings or both or is it rational?
Love seen by many is the felling you get when you lay your eyes on a face an you know that’s the one. By my point of view also. But is it forever? Yes or no?
It is obvious that after a certain time love fades away. We try off course all kinds of methods to fake that it isn’t so but this is the truth.
You see when you have something and you know that’s yours you have no more reasons to fight 4 it and if there are no more stimulus there only remains a fade picture of the past.
So what is to do? Well we are human beings and what differentiates us from the animals is that we have reason. We also have instincts. So what should we follow? Some say instincts(feelings) some say to always follow reason.
I say follow both. The hardest problem is that when do you know when reason stops and instinct begins.
I can’t tell you that because you just can’t say this in words. You just can’t put reality in words.
But it’s good to know that sometimes love is what you feel and think.
And now as to say something kind of real. I fell in love a couple of times. When I was alone I always had an urge to fell in love to have somebody. But after I got someone I actually didn’t cared no more to find one. That’s really interesting because having someone is not actually making me happy as it makes me more like having someone it kind of let’s me to be happy. I had this felling from forever and it’s really possible that what we call love is just one of the primary needs we need to satisfy to be happy. I’m not saying that love is just an instinct. And I’m also not saying that I don’t love to love. I mean it’s great to be in loved and it’s even greater when the one we love loves us back. But the greatest love I think is the love we don’t see, the love we don’t care so much. The love that is always there, no strings attached. We have so many people around us that love us unconditionally and it’s hard to see that because we usually tend to go for the things we don’t have. But the greatest love will always be the one of the people that will always love us without conditions. So take a moment and thinks about the people around you. Think about the people that help you unconditionally, think about the people who smile when you speak, think about the ones that are shy to ask you something, think about the ones that gave you life and realize that you are the spark in your fathers eyes when he first saw your mother. Think about the people that you are not scared of loosing them, those are the ones who truly love you, the other are already lost.
Ca un copil ma minunez.
E timpul ca sa nu visez,
la viitor sau la trecut…
De atins eu nu mai apuc.
Iar chipul tau asa curat,
numai acum e adevarat.
It’s just like my soul burning.:)
How can I think I’m standing strong,
Yet feel the air beneath my feet?
How can happiness feel so wrong?
How can misery feel so sweet?
How can you let me watch you sleep,
Then break my dreams the way you do?
How can I have got in so deep?
Why did I fall in love with you?
This is the closest thing to crazy I have ever been
Feeling twenty-two, acting seventeen,
This is the nearest thing to crazy I have ever known,
I was never crazy on my own…
And now I know that there’s a link between the two,
Being close to craziness and being close to you.
How can you make me fall apart
Then break my fall with loving lies?
It’s so easy to break a heart;
It’s so easy to close your eyes.
How can you treat me like a child
Yet like a child I yearn for you?
How can anyone feel so wild?
How can anyone feel so blue?
…and being close to you
…and being close to you.
It seems like the time caught me again… interesting enough is that this time I’m prepared… I’m prepared 4 change… I’m prepared for anything that life is offering me… seems like the universe is conspiring… conspiring with me… and everything seems so natural as if I belong to this world… as if this world wouldn’t be the same without me… as if you are conspiring beside me, with me…
I just just hate change… I always had… but every time is happening I just love it… I love to hate and I hate to love.
You know… if I place my hand on your hand after a while you wouldn’t notice it, but if I move it slowly you’ll notice it again.
We forget to feel because we are here constantly in the same environment so we can’t feel anymore that we are a whole with the universe. We are constantly hiding from ourselves, otherwise we would get bored pretty fast. Everything it’s a game of hide and seek and if we hide really good then the game is getting more and more interesting.
Oare nu ar fi minunat daca as putea spune stop? De multe ori ma regasesc in discutii in care incerc sa-i bag cu dea sila interlocutorului meu ceea ce cred eu ca e bine. Mai trist decat asta este ca incerc sa-i daram conceptele, principiile ce sunt la baza increderii in sine. Imi este foarte clar ca nu este bine. Asta este doar un caz particular…Chiar daca am posibilitatea sa continui, vreau sa pot spune stop si sa ma opresc!
Te vãd in viata mea,
Te vãd in jurul meu.
Te vãd pentru ca vreau!
Te vãd pentru ca simt,
Te vãd pentru ca existi.
Te vãd in trecut,
Te vãd in viitor,
Sunt pus in fata faptului implinit… Imi doresc de atat de mult timp sa impartasesc si eu ceva lumii la randul meu incat am ajuns si in punctul in care sa o si fac… Asta este primul pas dintr-o calatorie foarte lunga pe care o incep cu incredere si optimism. Dupa o buna perioada de zbucium si de regasire personala in sfarsit sunt gata sa-ti vorbesc. Acesta este primul meu articol in care efectiv ma adresez cuiva… ma adresez tie, iar tie vreau sa-ti schimb viata… De ce? Pentru ca sunt hotarat sa mi-o schimb pe a mea si atata vreme cat vom fi mai multi ne vom schimba impreuna!